

Birth Preferences with a Side of FRIES
Content note: Brief reference to sexual assault allegations, without graphic details. The recent reporting on sexual assault allegations Involving Cornell students has brought me back to the topic of consent. The allegations are described in a civil lawsuit, and this post Is not an attempt to adjudicate that case. It Is a reason to revisit something that deserves our attention well beyond the headlines: who gets to make decisions about our bodies. In birth, you deserve skille


Below Deck: Newborn Edition
Your baby has a very specific vision for their space, and unfortunately the bassinet you lovingly assembled while eight months pregnant is not aligning with it. That bassinet may be a perfect, standards-aligned safe sleep space, but your newborn does not like It. This tiny person just spent nine months living in the coziest little Hobbit hole imaginable, tucked tightly into warmth and constant sound and gentle movement, never more than a fraction of an inch away from a reassu


Mom is Justin Timberlake. But Dad is still *NSYNC.
If pregnancy were a boy band, let's be honest: Mom is Justin Timberlake. She's doing the vocals and the choreography and the costume changes AND hitting every note while also growing an entire human from scratch. Dad? Dad is giving solid Chris Kirkpatrick energy. Sure, he's there and he is totally part of the group, but if someone put you on the spot and said "Quick, name all 5 members of *NSYNC," you'd probably get to him fourth or fifth. (Sorry, Chris.) And yes, Mom is doin



